tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post1882994148396646135..comments2024-02-16T16:24:09.472+10:00Comments on 子貓物語~~附庸風雅: 異族婚姻Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10133122741874926109noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post-61014850209401386562012-06-17T23:03:40.967+10:002012-06-17T23:03:40.967+10:00"...極少數是華男娶洋女,粗略估計比例,是10與1之比吧。"
我相信果十分..."...極少數是華男娶洋女,粗略估計比例,是10與1之比吧。"<br /><br /><br />我相信果十分一多數係港裔男。港男冇大陸男人果種民族自卑感,鬼妹有如何?照上!取鬼妹/同鬼妹拍拖都算係香港文化一部份,香港取鬼妹的名人多如牛毛:Sam Hui,周一嶽,李國章,公民黨的陳家洛...連平民如我老表也娶了愛爾蘭妹。Tonynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post-58991738562983509802011-06-11T16:38:24.150+10:002011-06-11T16:38:24.150+10:00當年香港紅星葉楓,嫁給一個印度人,都給人說她「何苦呢」。當年香港紅星葉楓,嫁給一個印度人,都給人說她「何苦呢」。Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10133122741874926109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post-82804241623128357042011-06-11T16:22:17.858+10:002011-06-11T16:22:17.858+10:00> 華人有「人望高處」的想法,要不就跟同
> 胞或白人,黑人和印度人嘛,划不來!
A...> 華人有「人望高處」的想法,要不就跟同<br />> 胞或白人,黑人和印度人嘛,划不來! <br /><br />A little trivia, in the early 20th century, the public sentiment was that most Chinese women who immigrated to American were prostitutes (just like how we think of mainlander women coming to Hong Kong now) Therefore, American legislation made it very difficult for Chinese women to immigrate to the country, resulting in a very disproportion between men and women in Chinese American population. Furthermore, anti-miscegenation laws prohibited Chinese men from marrying white women. Consequently, during those dark ages of early immigration, it is not uncommon for Chinese men of marriage age turned to black or Indian women (native American, not Indians from India) for potential spouses. Of course we are talking about an entirely different era nowshangri_lahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17294489704942491888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post-88896442412894443612011-06-10T23:10:03.835+10:002011-06-10T23:10:03.835+10:00我以為會感恩圖報••••••我以為會感恩圖報••••••Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10133122741874926109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post-24604925202724532112011-06-10T22:40:16.927+10:002011-06-10T22:40:16.927+10:00男人「就」女人,大部分都沒有好下場。
因為過了一段時間女人就會嫌棄男方冇主見,然後他們就分手了。男人「就」女人,大部分都沒有好下場。<br />因為過了一段時間女人就會嫌棄男方冇主見,然後他們就分手了。司noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post-73841925454024109702011-06-10T21:47:09.663+10:002011-06-10T21:47:09.663+10:00真正愛情無堅不摧,見到有心儀的女子,去吧!真正愛情無堅不摧,見到有心儀的女子,去吧!Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10133122741874926109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post-36165244955713721042011-06-10T21:38:46.214+10:002011-06-10T21:38:46.214+10:00留學差不多六年,我也開始對鬼妹有點興趣(笑)
不過的確是:畏首畏尾,怕自己身裁不夠威猛、對方或會不...留學差不多六年,我也開始對鬼妹有點興趣(笑)<br /><br />不過的確是:畏首畏尾,怕自己身裁不夠威猛、對方或會不喜歡亞洲人、約會不遂很無面.....<br />另外也怕英文講得不正宗不流利造成壞印象 <br />還有就是不知畢業後的路,不知能否居留,也是一種後顧之憂Heimannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post-52103405108422987752011-06-10T07:15:16.937+10:002011-06-10T07:15:16.937+10:00是的呀。
可能是男人對女人好!是的呀。<br />可能是男人對女人好!Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10133122741874926109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post-27765588725693369702011-06-10T00:44:34.746+10:002011-06-10T00:44:34.746+10:00你觀察到的華女嫁洋男/華男娶洋女個案,似乎都是男人「就」女人你觀察到的華女嫁洋男/華男娶洋女個案,似乎都是男人「就」女人bratricehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11432755141188984130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post-59702227939028524462011-06-09T23:52:28.073+10:002011-06-09T23:52:28.073+10:00請恕失言,華人有「人望高處」的想法,要不就跟同胞或白人,黑人和印度人嘛,划不來!請恕失言,華人有「人望高處」的想法,要不就跟同胞或白人,黑人和印度人嘛,划不來!Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10133122741874926109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post-44410016943209815202011-06-09T22:46:42.451+10:002011-06-09T22:46:42.451+10:00Chris :
It is an interesting observation you make...Chris :<br /><br />It is an interesting observation you make regarding "mix-ethnic" marriages. It is also the same situation in US as well. Recently, I went to Chinatown, along the way, I saw 10 to 1 ratio for "mix-ethnic" couples. However, one interesting to point out, if a couple that is Chinese husband, Caucasian wife. Usually, their social background are quite similar.<br /><br />Also, living in US, it is also interesting to see Chinese husband with an African American wife, an Indian wife or Latin American wife.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post-17755934049905942372011-06-09T20:16:59.698+10:002011-06-09T20:16:59.698+10:00英雄美人公主娘,
我認識有個港女嫁英國佬,他適應得很充分,識講和聽廣東話;飲廿四味,食蛇羹、鳳爪.....英雄美人公主娘,<br />我認識有個港女嫁英國佬,他適應得很充分,識講和聽廣東話;飲廿四味,食蛇羹、鳳爪....就是不喜歡食粥。Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10133122741874926109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post-49185799638209909662011-06-09T20:13:04.641+10:002011-06-09T20:13:04.641+10:00Nicholas,
你的英文OK,不用太謙。
你講的也是實情,任何事物的發生,都有多方面的原因的。Nicholas,<br />你的英文OK,不用太謙。<br />你講的也是實情,任何事物的發生,都有多方面的原因的。Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10133122741874926109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post-37121433797273993462011-06-09T19:34:24.428+10:002011-06-09T19:34:24.428+10:00我屋企比較“亂”
我叔叔娶美國婆,姑姑嫁美國佬。
美國婆非常難搞⋯⋯ 美國佬就非常順攤(可能個別性格...我屋企比較“亂”<br />我叔叔娶美國婆,姑姑嫁美國佬。<br />美國婆非常難搞⋯⋯ 美國佬就非常順攤(可能個別性格問題)。或亞洲人性格比較順從。對方得寸近尺都唔定。<br />我自己嫁左黎義大利。我從來唔 fancy 嫁鬼。<br />死唔肯接受(之前系香港都有好幾隻鬼追過⋯⋯)<br />時間系甘過⋯⋯最後米又系嫁鬼:( 仲要走埋黎義大利呢個落後國家(系米攞黎衰呢?!)<br />我比我老公高1mm⋯⋯身材唔系最大的原因。<br />我老公唔鍾意義大利女人 - 太霸道。<br />所以甘多前女友得1個系義大利人。<br />我覺得系個別性格多於其他。生活大家遷就同明白。<br />好多因為同樣語言同文化反而唔會特別去理解同明白(我覺得)。反而因為唔同先會特別研究下。<br />我老公都有D中國野唔食 -例如-豆腐(無味)。<br />其他野佢鍾意渦,系我懶同呢到揾唔到可靠食材我先煮得少。<br />佢竟然鍾意食鹹蛋(皮蛋就免),內臟全免(包括義大利菜),連鳳爪佢都食!英雄美人公主+黑仔同壽司娘 https://www.blogger.com/profile/12646003938512680170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post-70815266027181332032011-06-09T19:17:15.662+10:002011-06-09T19:17:15.662+10:00One of the main reasons which I think why Western ...One of the main reasons which I think why Western women don't want to marry Asian men is that in Western countries, most people still see Asians as both weak in physical build and sociological status, which means Asians are still mostly viewed as weak minorities in Western countries who are often ridiculed at and viewed negatively upon by the majority of people in Western society. <br /><br />This is mainly because the racial characteristics of most Asian people tend to lean more to the timid introvert types, so this is mostly seen and labeled as weak by Westerners whose racial characterics and ways of thinking tend to be more strong-willed, straight-forward, and aggressive. <br /><br />I personally think that this is mainly because Asians are an older race than the Caucasian race, so Asians had lost the liveliness and aggressiveness in their ways of thinking throughout the ages. It got replaced by timidity and seeking harmony between individuals more than strong wills and straighforwardness<br /><br />(Sorry for some bad English)Nicholas Chennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post-66106588447794509742011-06-09T17:52:17.149+10:002011-06-09T17:52:17.149+10:00路人,
也許是洋男較主動,有好感便放膽追求。
一些華男畏首畏尾,怕自己身裁不夠威猛、對方或會不喜歡...路人, <br />也許是洋男較主動,有好感便放膽追求。<br />一些華男畏首畏尾,怕自己身裁不夠威猛、對方或會不喜歡亞洲人、約會不遂很無面.....Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10133122741874926109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post-51409694385887848922011-06-09T17:48:49.433+10:002011-06-09T17:48:49.433+10:00碧潭,
也是。
也是華人男士嘴饞,堅持要能做中國飯的太太,還是找華女結婚才行。碧潭,<br />也是。<br />也是華人男士嘴饞,堅持要能做中國飯的太太,還是找華女結婚才行。Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10133122741874926109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post-25716999072732844732011-06-09T17:45:43.697+10:002011-06-09T17:45:43.697+10:00sk,
可能是大陸女同胞特別積極嫁西人,以獲得居留身份之故。sk,<br />可能是大陸女同胞特別積極嫁西人,以獲得居留身份之故。Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10133122741874926109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post-11938202545826674812011-06-09T17:44:24.724+10:002011-06-09T17:44:24.724+10:00力,
我識得有個意大利老公,同我們吃晚餐時對住碗飯發呆。
原來他食飯一定要像吃意粉的撈汁,否則吃不下...力,<br />我識得有個意大利老公,同我們吃晚餐時對住碗飯發呆。<br />原來他食飯一定要像吃意粉的撈汁,否則吃不下。Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10133122741874926109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post-35851606193330802952011-06-09T17:42:00.350+10:002011-06-09T17:42:00.350+10:00Raymond,
很多西人有「蝴蝶夫人」幻想。
有些主動向我們要求介紹中國女人先友後婚。Raymond,<br />很多西人有「蝴蝶夫人」幻想。<br />有些主動向我們要求介紹中國女人先友後婚。Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10133122741874926109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post-30755038668652670602011-06-09T15:43:34.292+10:002011-06-09T15:43:34.292+10:00有朋友好奇問洋男為什麼選擇華女,問了幾個之後綜合原因,比起洋女,華女比較順從、寬容,懂得說貼心好話,...有朋友好奇問洋男為什麼選擇華女,問了幾個之後綜合原因,比起洋女,華女比較順從、寬容,懂得說貼心好話,讓洋男覺得自己像大王,不免心憐疼愛。<br /><br />華女為什麼傾心洋男?多數都說是緣份來了、感覺對了,沒有特別因為種族而選擇。<br /><br />華男對洋女呢?很多說其體毛多,摸起來不夠滑嫩,身形強壯而致興趣缺缺,又兼有些洋女較直接,令華男吃不消。再加上考慮到語言文化跟父母不一定通,就打退堂鼓了。路人noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post-31261731422640894982011-06-09T14:41:26.860+10:002011-06-09T14:41:26.860+10:00中國人與西方人的體格身高差距較大。華男娶洋女著實不容易。中國人與西方人的體格身高差距較大。華男娶洋女著實不容易。Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04127776375536039133noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post-45357282958471772592011-06-09T13:55:14.796+10:002011-06-09T13:55:14.796+10:00From personal observation, Canada has the same dis...From personal observation, Canada has the same disproportinal asian female marriage to westerner too. <br /><br />But it seems rare that these westerners are in the middle/ upper class. Maybe in the next few generations, the trend will move further upward.sknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post-32954693098609860712011-06-09T11:59:10.004+10:002011-06-09T11:59:10.004+10:00我老婆個阿叔娶左個意大利人,正如你所講,佢地成家比較洋化,細路唔識聽、講廣東話,但聽得明少少意大利文...我老婆個阿叔娶左個意大利人,正如你所講,佢地成家比較洋化,細路唔識聽、講廣東話,但聽得明少少意大利文。雖然結左婚好耐,但都唔係樣樣唐人野都食,但已經比其他洋人食多好多。D細路仲要係飯桶!一餐最少食6,7碗飯,如果有老火湯最少飲3,4碗!力noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38403698.post-50310258532925656012011-06-09T08:42:01.496+10:002011-06-09T08:42:01.496+10:00我住的大廈,就有多對華女嫁洋人。
讀浸會時,教大一英文的美國女講師,就嫁給了中國人。她在堂上告訴我們...我住的大廈,就有多對華女嫁洋人。<br />讀浸會時,教大一英文的美國女講師,就嫁給了中國人。她在堂上告訴我們邂逅男朋友的經過,何時結婚......大二時,她辭職,再沒有消息了。Raymondnoreply@blogger.com